“Seaside Obituary” A Poem by Poet in Residence Georgina Marie

I remember it exactly as the day it was:

gray, overcast, the air salty

from pounding waves the coastal winds learned to master

To get there, you had to enter a winding road

where each side of the concrete pathway

was lined with standing gods in the shapes of redwoods

the scent of the air pungent with pine and petrichor

as it entered the pickup truck windows

rolled down just enough to feel the chill

I was his daughter, once

This day may have been the last day it was apparent

A drive to the ocean side

A walk through old settlement grounds of Jenner

Place of original windmills, place of migration

He bought me an abalone hairclip

He ripped seaweed from rocks to humor his daughter

to feed his grumbling hunter stomach

How I long to remember how gentle this day was

how softly he tore the long, dirty green leaves from rugged rocks

contrasting how often his hands and words hit harder

than the ocean hits sea stacks that have existed

long before the sand we once stood on ever contained memory

How strange, what is revealed when remembrance

chooses to reveals itself to you

how a sense of lonely becomes an unraveling tide

controlled not by the moon but by memory that pushes and pulls

opening neurological seascapes of muted recollections

that still call my name

The ocean will always outlive us

I have outlived him

This is my first post with Karma Compass! You will see poems from me on grief, trauma, healing, and more.

-Georgina Marie, Poet in Residence